“After cancelling my wedding , I was looking for more interesting things which can help me to get over this terrible thing”,my friend Jony said. Yes ,he cancels his wedding last month because the bride said she was regretful. Johy respected and didn’t want to have a miserable marriage so he decided to end this marriage. But he felt so bad. The woman he loved betrayed him and he had to pretended he was OK because he didn’t make to make anyone who cared about him so upset. But I am his best friend and he told me his real feelings after we drunk. I can feel his pain. Then, I gathered some friends to chat about the way to help him get over this bad thing. After several heated discussions, we summed up two effective methods.
The first method is to to make him to go to park everyday morning. He had a small dog and we took him and his dog every morning to the park. We hoped that with the fresh air, he could totally forget the bad wedding. Actually, all of us were lazy but this could be special time. We did it for a week but the effect was very little. Yes ,we are lazy and we lacked of exercise in the past. Therefore, we deicede to abondon this way and find more ways.
The second tip is to let him use some hookup apps. Yes ,this can be the most effective way. In our real life, chatting with strangers can be really hard. But in some hookup apps, this can be realized easily and people often come here for fun. They don’t know the people thay are chatting with are positive or negetive so they are more willing to listen to the stories more carefuully in a hookup dating app. We helped Jony to register and this process is simple . Adding his name and pictures, he started to find suitabel partners. He found thie first female partner in this hookup dating app ,and he asked the girl’ hobbies and then, he started to talk about his bad wedding. His partner, Lily , showed great interest to his story and she comforted Jony. After 10 minutes, he told us he felt better as he found some strangers were caring about him which made us happy. And his second partner ,Julia, who came from the same city as us, asked Jony out. And we agreed to help Jony to have a better experience in this hookup. We made great plan including the topic Jony should talk about and the resitaurant they should go. Of course, we were also afraid Julia may be an online liar. But we were wrong, she was real and nice. After my friend and I saw they had dinner, we went back home and let them stay alone. The next day, Jony said he was better and thanks for what we did. This way could work and we all felt happy to see him cheer up.
The above two ways may be helpful to cheer someone up and hope you can also help your friend.